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Imagine a simpler time: the guy drives over to pick you up; instead of texting you “I’m here” he comes inside; maybe there are flowers involved; he opens the car door for you; instead of watching Netflix on your couch, he takes you to dinner at a little Italian restaurant; afterwards, he drives you home and walks you to your front door. Why has the new norm become “talking” to each other with zero responsibilities to your partner, exhausting conversations trying to explain what your relationship means to your parents, and confusing boundaries? A like on Instagram has become better than a compliment in person. I’ve seen girls drive themselves insane wondering if the guy they’re talking to is talking to other girls.Why are we more comfortable texting and Tindering each other than having conversations face to face? More time is spent texting each other than spent in person; when you’re not busy texting, you’re trying to figure out when to text them back. Snapchat has given us a way to flirt without leaving the comfort of our beds. I’ve seen high expectations crushed when that “hot” girl on Tinder turns out to be just an “average” looking girl. Gentlemen: there should only be two women you regularly talk to. There should be no reason you’re hanging out with more than one girl.Based on a web audit of more than 60 online dating sites and in-depth interviews with 23 users of online dating services, we argue that recent global trends are influencing the uptake of online technologies for the purposes of forming intimate relations.
Yet, to date, there has been a minimal response by sociologists to seek, describe and understand this influence.
In this article, we present some of the key findings of our research on online dating in Australia, in order to foster a debate about the sociological impacts on intimacy in the postmodern world.
To be fair, our whole lives we’ve been discouraged from pursuing serious relationships.
“You’re too young to be so serious with [insert significant other’s name],” our parents insisted.
With this evidence, why would we ever try to look for something more serious?
Another issue facing romance culture today is that traditional dating doesn’t really exist anymore.The average age for couples to marry from the 1930s to the 1970s was 23 for men and 20 for women, according to a study by Infoplease.Now imagine for a moment that you’ll be married in the next two years.This article examines the growing phenomenon of online dating and intimacy in the 21st century.The exponential rise of communications technologies, which is both reflective and constitutive of an increasingly networked and globalized society, has the potential to significantly influence the nature of intimacy in everyday life.“I think we all want someone to come home to at the end of day,” said University of South Florida freshman Kathryn Cound. Want sex without commitment or any inkling of emotional attachment?